My lovely mum died yesterday afternoon at 2pm. For these past six days in particular mum and I walked The Way of The Cross. Before she slipped into a semi consciousness we prayed rosaries, divine mercy chaplets and the angelus together. However right up to the very end she was still attempting to join in with the prayers.
In amongst the sadness there were moments of hilarity as mum recounted funny stories or responded with very droll one liners! We shared picnics in her room and chatted about everyday happenings too.
It was a privilege to care for her in practical ways such as helping her drink and spiritually by advocating for a visit from the priest. The chaplaincy team at the hospital were such a comfort to me and there were two separate occasions whereby God had answered a prayer I hadn’t even said. In her last moments she had me and Aunty Teresa ( her youngest sister) at her bedside praying her over into eternity, with my brother praying quietly at the foot of the bed.
Miss you loads Mum but Praise God no more suffering 💕
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Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord,
and let perpetual light shine upon her.
May the souls of all the faithful departed,
through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
Amen
I will say a special prayer for your mom and your family, dear San. Sending you love and consolation in this sad time.
I'm sending so much love to you San, and saying prayers for your mom. May she rest in peace with all your love and God's love surrounding her.
Thank you Eva and Dorina for your love and prayers xxx
Dear San, I am so sorry for your loss. No matter the individual circumstances, this particular carries significant weight and depth … one of my parents died just over one year ago, and I think of them every day … lighting a candle for you and your family. 🤍🕯️
Thank you Elli for your loving words and friendship across the miles it really is appreciated xx
Sending you love, Sandra. I am sorry to read that your map has died but glad that you were able to be with her in her final days and moments. Although painful no doubt, also comforting. Cx
Thank you Christina x
So sorry for your loss, San.
Such a blessing that you and the family were able to spend the time with your mum right up until her passing.
Sending prayers of love and comfort. xxx
Thank you Lynda it was such a privilege to be with mum right to the very end, just like I did with Dad xx
I have been overseas and not spending much time online . I echo all the beautiful comments above . Your Mum has returned home and you will one day be with her again
Siobhan x
Oh Sandra, I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Much love to you and I am so glad you and Teresa were with her at the end!xx
I saw a link to this prayer booklet and thought you might like it.
That is such a lovely photo of her. I can imagine you, years on, coming back to this page on your blog and there she will be, still smiling at you. I'm so glad you were able to travel with her through those last days, and be with her as she took flight into eternity. I think that must have given her courage and reassurance. You are, as always, every day in our prayers. xx
Thank you Siobhan xx
Thanks Kezzie xxx
Thank you for such a lovely reflection Pen and for your prayers xxx
I'm sorry to hear that you lost your mother. It's strange to lose one's parents, at any age.
Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving such kind words x
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